Friday, June 25, 2010

D+C Scheduled

After much deliberation (and help from bloggy friends), we have decided to go ahead with the D+C.  It will be Monday morning at 11:30.  Quite frankly, I don't think I can handle the wait and not knowing when it might happen if I let it go naturally.  I feel like I need to get the actual miscarriage out of the way before I can fully grieve properly, know what I mean?  The last 24 hours has sucked severely.  I've cried more tears than I ever thought possible. 

I know many people are praying and thinking about us, and we truly appreciate it.  While part of us wishes we didn't have a million people to have to tell, the other part is happy to have so much support--both from people we know "in real life" and from blog friends we've never actually met.  We know the Lord is sovereign and holy, even if we can't see why this is all happening right now. 

Thanks for being there, guys.

18 comments:

Marla Z June 25, 2010 at 11:01 AM  

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this, Krystal. :( *hugs*

Jaime June 25, 2010 at 11:03 AM  

My heart is still breaking for you. Lifting you up in my prayers.

lifefamilysanity June 25, 2010 at 12:29 PM  

{hugs}

Alex June 25, 2010 at 2:37 PM  

Thinking of you this weekend as you wait for the D&C. And sending you a hug.

Lori June 25, 2010 at 4:35 PM  

Bless your heart...I don't even know how I stumbled across your blog but I am so, so sorry for your lost and will lift you in prayer.

Many apologies and gentle thoughts.

Rebecca June 25, 2010 at 5:05 PM  

Here from Alex's blog. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I've just experienced a similar loss (found out at an ultrasound that the baby stopped growing at 7 1/2 weeks when I was supposed to be 11 weeks). I wish you a peaceful weekend and some closure as you wait for your D&C.

Middle of the Pack June 25, 2010 at 10:56 PM  

Here from LFCA. I'm so sorry for your loss, Krystal.

Jess June 26, 2010 at 9:48 AM  

{{{Krystal}}} I have been away for the past week and just now read this. Please know that I am lifting both you and your husband up in prayer during this time.

Jo June 26, 2010 at 11:55 AM  

I'm so sorry you are having to endure this. Lots of love and hugs to you.

Jenn June 27, 2010 at 2:42 PM  

will be thinking of you this comming week

Shannon June 27, 2010 at 3:32 PM  

Here from LCFA.

I'm so sorry, Krystal. I just went through something very similar last month. The D&C is easy, but the rest of it just sucks. It is hard having to tell lots of people - it helps if you ask a few of your most talkative friends to share the news - but it is very very comforting to have so many people who care for you give you support.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

lifefamilysanity June 28, 2010 at 6:43 AM  

Thinking of you today. {hugs}

justine June 28, 2010 at 11:33 AM  

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, and hoping that you are patient and kind with your body and your spirit as long as you need to heal. You'll be in my thoughts.

Alex June 28, 2010 at 2:25 PM  

Thinking of you - sending good thoughts your way.

Adele June 28, 2010 at 7:59 PM  

Here from LFCA. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

cowgirltn June 29, 2010 at 1:36 PM  

I pray your D&C went well and you are spirtually and physically healing now.

BURNS FAMILY June 29, 2010 at 3:30 PM  

Krystal,
I am so very sorry about your loss. Hope everything went well on Monday and you are in my prayers.

jrs June 29, 2010 at 4:04 PM  

I am so sorry to hear about your loss