A Conundrum

So, I decided to give my RE's office a call to let them know about the miscarriage and ask what our plan would be for when we started trying again.  (On a completely side note, I just had to say the phrase, "Stop licking your magnifying glass!"  What kind of life do I live?!  lol)  The nurse called me back yesterday afternoon right before closing time.  She wanted to know the story (which is getting easier and easier to recount without getting all emotional...not that I want to talk about it a bunch), and she said she'd have to talk to a doctor, but probably they'd just have me start the provera at some point and call for my baseline.  Then, they'd just do a cycle like the one we got pregnant with: femara and follistim.  I asked her if they'd start me at 150, since they'd had to up me from the 100 and she said that would probably be the plan.  I asked her if I should just start my provera mid-August (safe in the knowledge that it will be late-August/early-September when my period starts), and she said she'd ask the doctor that, too when she talked to him.

So, I get a call this morning from a nurse saying that the previous nurse had talked to the doctor (one that I hadn't met yet.  I always forget how many stinking doctors there are there!), and he said I could start my provera NOW!  I was pretty surprised to hear this, as Dr.S had been explicit in her instructions about waiting 2 cycles/8 weeks.  I mentioned this to the nurse, with the addendum that Dr. S had been concerned that my lining wouldn't be sufficient to carry a pregnancy if I tried again too soon.  "But, I imagine that's a non-issue since they'll do ultrasounds, right?"  The nurse agreed.

So, here's my problem (finally, I know!): do I go ahead and start it once I pick up my provera?  Or do I wait?  On the plus side, it is sooner and we could ditch the condoms!  LOL!  On the other side, we had ourselves emotionally ready for starting in September.  Also, if I start the provera soon, AF will probably arrive right in time for my sister's (outdoor) wedding on August 13, and, if we get pregnant, we'd be due right when my brother will be graduating from high school in May.  I'd really rather not be bleeding profusely in a bridesmaids dress or miss my brother's graduation, so probably I'll wait a week or so before taking the provera, should we decide to go that way.  Nick and I still need to talk about it, so a decision has not been made yet, I just wanted your opinions!